"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What, you too? I thought I was the only one!'" - CS Lewis
"No man is an island."- I think John Donne, but I'm too lazy to look it up. I'm not taking credit for the quote and I used to know in high school...
Our stories are meant for sharing. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
In the Bible, there's a verse that reminds us that we can use our troubles to help encourage others. If we don't talk about our troubles, how can that serve as an encouragement?
So often in this society we have measures to live up to that seem impossible. How can we share our story when it makes us look so bad?
Simply because, if we choose to be vulnerable, it may enable someone else to.
If they see what a mess we are, they may realize it's ok to admit their flaws.
I'm not saying that we don't try to do better...
just that it's ok not to be ok sometimes.
And it's also ok to share our successes. When we humbly express our achievements in a way that points to the Father, it encourages others to try.
Being willing to share our stories is hard. It's uncomfortable. And so often we wonder what we even have to offer someone else.
Here's the thing, though. That person standing in line behind you at Walmart? They may need a little encouragement. I'm not saying you tell them your life story, but by choosing to look them in the eye and look them in the eye, choosing to exchange a little pleasantry with them, we are sharing the human experience. In our day of technological connection, that little bit of human interaction can make a huge difference.
Small amounts of sharing can lead to big results- in the lives of others and in your own! So start sharing!
This post is a part of #write31days, with a prompt from Five Minute Fridays focusing on the word share. Five Minute Fridays is a community where individuals write for five minutes, unedited, on one topic. We're doing this all month instead of just Fridays! For more Five Minute Friday posts, click here. For more posts in my series about Telling My Tale, click here.
Great encouragement to be real, and be kind! :)
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